One path to getting rich looks more like saving money. While your friends buy the fancier options, you don’t. You’re not broke, you’re living within your means and taking steps toward richness. Maybe you used to borrow from the future, and now you’ve given that inclination up.

Whereas most people may feel a horrifying shame at haggling, a rich person does it anyway. The rich person gets a discount that they didn’t need. Perhaps the working class person doesn’t want to be seen getting a discount. They experience two very different relationships with money.

If you want to change how you spend money or save it, a good place to start is to consider how you feel about it and take steps to tell yourself new stories.