Category: Turning Stories
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Take yourself seriously
You want to make a change in your life. You might not have someone in your life who takes your drive to do that seriously. That matters less than you think. You may feel sad about it, or even grumble occasionally, but you don’t need to let it stop you. You can take yourself seriously.…
Herbert Lui
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Clarify your definition of success
Over a decade ago, I joined Lifehacker to work as a writer. The job required me to pitch and write three short stories per day, and two longer essays per week. While that’s a huge quantity of posts, the actually challenging part was finding stories that hadn’t already been covered by Lifehacker. All the easy…
Herbert Lui
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Easier done than said
AI has flipped the saying, “Easier said than done,” on its head. Nowadays, many things are easier done than said. For example, if you’re starting a business, you can ask Claude Code, Lovable, or another prototyping solution to generate an app pretty quickly. A lot of people do. So, what should you actually build? What…
Herbert Lui
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Which story will you choose?
J. Cole is one of the bestselling recording artists in the world. He is also a decent basketball player. A few years ago, he played for the Scarborough Shooting Stars. (This would’ve been fun to talk to Faiz about. Hamza and I grew up in Scarborough!) He recently played a game with the Chinese Basketball…
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The ROI of a recovery attempt
When you lose something, you need to decide: should you attempt to recover it, or should you give it up? (You can ask this same question when something’s broken: should you repair it, or should you give it up?) Giving up means accepting the loss. It means letting go of the past, moving on, and…
Herbert Lui
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Difficulty is a positive early signal
“All things are difficult at the beginning,” goes a Chinese proverb (translating from, “万事开头难”). Each entry in the Consistency Journal is introduced by a quote. That’s the one on day six. After nearly a week of journaling, and using it to help build my business writing practice, it resonated with me immensely. Dejection is a…
Herbert Lui
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Talk to your competitors
One of my friends started a software development company. His clients were local, and so were his competitors. One day, an idea came to him: all his competitors knew him and each other, but they’d never been in touch before. Why not reach out? He sent out the invitations, and they all met at a…
Herbert Lui
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Nonsense
People say nonsensical things all the time. They don’t know better, they’re mindlessly expressing their second nature, or you caught them at a weird time. Sometimes, all of the above. You do it. I do it. Nobody’s perfect. Nonsense shows up as a decision that doesn’t make sense, vague instructions, or a belief that conflicts with…
Herbert Lui
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Second nature
A second nature is a behaviour or thought that’s very deeply ingrained in you. It could take you towards your goals, like calming down when you feel confused or hugging a loved one when they’re hurting. Or, it could take you away from them, like holding a grudge or beating yourself up. It happens almost…
Herbert Lui
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What’s obvious to you might not be to me
In school and work, you’re conditioned to believe, “Your contribution isn’t valuable if it’s obvious.” But more often than you’d think, you take for granted what you know, and assume that I know it too. What’s obvious to you might not be obvious to me; it might be the first time I’ve learned about it.…
Herbert Lui