Category: Life
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Advice for considering advice
Advice is a genre that should probably be treated more like fiction than non-fiction. Because so much content that’s packaged as advice is more like entertainment or remixed clichés—with little lived experiences, or introspective reflections, to support it—it’s best to read most advice with the seriousness you would a fictional story or a horoscope. Take…
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A trustworthy expert’s tone
It’s in an expert’s interest to make the case that they can add value to you and your work. That usually means that you need to believe you’re not doing something right. The next time you experience doubt after hearing an expert’s claims, just remember that they’re incentivized to make you feel that way. It…
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Points for pointedness
Matt Galligan said to me, nearly a decade ago, “When you ask pointed questions, you can get real answers. It is so much easier for me to knock out an email with a thoughtful response when a question is asked.” Make the question direct, to the point, and easy for the other person to respond…
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A ladder of independence
Almost a year ago, I wrote about the importance of finding ladders to help structure your work. I just found a good one, “The Spectrum of Financial Dependence and Independence,” by Morgan Housel. There are 16 levels of independence, with clear definitions. I appreciate it because it’s much more flexible than what the typical label…
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Serious possibilism
People often call me an optimist, because I show them the enormous progress they didn’t know about. That makes me angry. I’m not an optimist. That makes me sound naïve. I’m a very serious “possibilist.” That’s something I made up. It means someone who neither hopes without reason, nor fears without reason, someone who constantly…
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Ronald Read
One of my favorite recent discoveries is Ronald Read. Wikipedia describes him as an “American philanthropist, investor, janitor, and gas station attendant,” which you certainly don’t see very often. He amassed a small fortune simply by buying stocks, reinvesting the dividends, and sticking with his picks for many years. As the Wall Street Journal reports:…
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Getting ahead of it
When it’s possible, the best time to meet somebody is when you don’t need to meet them. In The First 90 Days, Michael Watkins writes: Remember: you don’t want to be meeting your neighbors for the first time in the middle of the night when your house is burning down. There’s also a big difference…
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Three appointments, please
A co-worker told me his secret to keeping a streak of haircut appointments: Because his barber is busy, he books three appointments in advance.
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Losing 101
You might’ve been born and bred to win. As a kid, you might’ve won awards, made the most friends, or been recognized as an excellent athlete. Many of us grow up like this, children of parents who were taught to do the same. We mostly learn to do this as individuals. In situations like this,…
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“This is not important”
This is how procrastination outsmarts you. It tells you, “[This] is not important.” So you may hear statements like, “This isn’t the right time for me to be doing this.” It may sound like, “I shouldn’t be doing my administrative work right now, because planning for the upcoming quarter is more important.” That’s fine, and…