Category: Life
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Their currency, their rules
With the prevalence of loyalty programs, it’s important to remember: if you’re using a company’s currency (such as points, rewards, coupons, etc.), you’ll need to abide by their rules. They can update their rules anytime with arbitrary guidelines and principles. They will often do this to incentivize you to make decisions or behave in their…
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What are we surviving for?
There’s a common belief that medicine saves lives, and that art doesn’t. (Or, “Medicine actually saves lives though.”) This isn’t a constructive story. Nor is it a true story. This story was invented by people whose myopia for calculation blinded them to the facts. The benefits of salaries, scientific theory, and fear (disguised as practicality)…
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Quit while you’re ahead
1. “As soon as you buy something you lose the power to buy something,” Loftis tells Cooter in Exchange Value by Charles R. Johnson (via Lauren Berlant in Cruel Optimism). 2. “When we are in the gains, we have a tendency to quit too early in order to avoid the risk of giving those gains…
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Skimming a book can change your life
Usually, if you think something’s important to learn, you’ll want to dedicate time and energy to do it. You want to do this very intentionally: to set aside an extended period of resources to learn something. Maybe the next time you take a vacation, or have a sabbatical, or are in between jobs. While this…
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If you can’t prioritize it, make it a practice
Some things are just too important to ever prioritize or de-prioritize. They’re things you have to do every day-ish. The most fundamental example is eating, sleeping, and drinking water. Breaking any of these practices is simply not sustainable for your health, quality of life, or work. The same applies to practicing all sorts of other…
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Flexibility cost
Sticking to the plan is usually the least expensive solution. However! Plans are just guesses. Sometimes we guess poorly. Or, circumstances change, and our guess proves to be wrong. For example, you planned to quit our job, and entrepreneurship turns out to be nothing like what you guessed it would be like. Or you started…
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Oops
This is the ideal way to respond if you make a mistake by accident. As in: “Oops, I made a mistake, please let me find a way to make this right.” “Oops, I made a mistake, please let me try to figure out why and fix it.” “Oops, I’m sorry I made a mistake. Please…
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Decisiveness has an expiry date
For years, I’ve wanted to buy an external monitor for my laptop. I’ve worked with a dual monitor setup pretty much up till 2018. Working from a laptop screen was suboptimal. I’ve been meaning to buy one this whole time, and I didn’t until last Friday. Here’s what happened: As I started my search, I…
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10 questions to help you decide between career options
What do you want to be doing in a decade? What will your ideal day look like? (How can you make it feel like Saturday, every day?) Which game do you want to be over? Which game do you want to keep playing? What do you need to to keep playing the game, and how…
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A fisherman and banker exchange numbers
I put this together based on the parable of the Mexican fisherman, as made famous by lifestyle design and the internet. (See also the situation where this parable doesn’t work out!)