Category: Life
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Perceptions vs. the truth
“One of the attractions of newsletters and podcasts for me is that the best ones throw off the artifice of knowing The Truth and instead are journeys of figuring it out. This is pretty much what being a human is about. We’ve always been trying to figure things out. I believe that’s what the attraction…
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Jeitinho
Mark Manson writes, “Jeitinho refers to the ability to find ways to cut corners or “hack” the system in some way. So if I figure out a way to renew my driver’s license without having to wait in line for three hours, that’s jeitinho. If I manage to find a way into the soccer game…
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Shipping early as self-sabotage
Once you’ve shipped a lot of work, you start chasing it. You no longer fear shipping or releasing work; in fact, you might be hooked on it. Ship early, ship often, you think. The challenge changes. Anyone can ship early, even amateurs. People use shipping to phone in bad work all the time; that’s how…
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Career patterns
It’s great to have role models or benchmarks of what success looks like. It also makes sense to study their career trajectories, strategies, and tactics. What doesn’t make sense is limiting your work and options based on you think the person you’re modeling after would or wouldn’t do. For starters, unless you know your role…
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Emily in Paris
I watched more Emily in Paris than I’d like to admit, so this piece taking it on tickled my brain. There are so many departure points for responses I don’t even know where to start; the signature of an exploratory, curious, piece. Lots of implications for creators (in the social media occupation sense of the…
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Instinct
Instinct is an incredible tool for entrepreneurs and artists. If you’re in the early stages of doing something that’s heading in the direction you intended, you’ll feel the momentum. Maybe you tell your friends about it, and they approach you with an opportunity to do business together. Or you’re tapping into a new source of…
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Teaching yourself
The ability (and confidence) to teach yourself something is a wonderful thing. Depending on the subject, though, it’s often a very time-intense process. Once you can afford to, walk both paths; take the class, and teach yourself. Two teachers are better than one.
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When the Mexican fisherman parable breaks
I’ve seen this parable everywhere for years, most recently in Oliver Burkeman’s Four Thousand Weeks (great book!), and I’ve usually appreciated it: A vacationing New York businessman who gets talking to a Mexican fisherman, who tells him that he works only a few hours per day and spends most of his time drinking wine in…
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72 seasons
An ancient Japanese calendar marked time in 72 seasons, ushering in a new season approximately every 5 days. That probably sounds strange to me and you, because we’re so used to thinking of seasons in 3 month increments. (Actually in Toronto it’s more like two seasons and 6 month increments…you get the idea.) Time is…
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Departure eyes
One of the best—and most bittersweet—aspects of travel is not just arriving in a new place, but departing a familiar one. Oftentimes, departing a place you call home. It’s an occasion that brings out the flavor of home. You appreciate buildings you walked past without a second glance. The most mundane details grow more loveable,…