Category: Expectations
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The vessel heuristic
What if, when you made art, you weren’t expressing yourself? What if you were a vessel for something greater to express themselves through? “The human mind is literally an antenna,” Pharrell says. “It picks up waves and transmissions from the ultimate source, from the ether.” “The sculpture is already complete within the marble block, before…
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Confidence vs. trusting the process
“This might not work,” Seth Godin writes in his blog post, “Out on a limb.” (It’s one of my favorites, alongside “Talker’s Block.” ) It’s fascinating to see this idea make it into a key part of his book The Practice, which I recently picked up and find myself liking a lot. If you pick…
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Serious writing
In Impro, Keith Johnstone describes how his teachers taught him to write, “They wanted me to reject and discriminate, believing that the best artist was the one who made the most elegant choices. They analysed poems to show how difficult ‘real’ writing was, and they taught that I should always know where the writing was…
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Find more ways to win
If you play a game of chess well, with the right position, there is more than one way for you to win. If you play a game poorly, your options are few—there is only one way, perhaps even a miracle, for you to win. For any goal you have, it’s worth considering how many paths…
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A genuine reaction
When you do good work, you need to believe in the work. Put it out there, find a place to publish and promote it (definitely more than once!), and let the people respond. You don’t need to ask them for a five star review, or for applause, or anything like that. If the work is…
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100% organic
Plants don’t necessarily need gardeners to grow; for many millennia, they have grown on their own. Even if a person wanted to, they don’t control how or when a plant grows—they can only influence the odds of survival by giving it good care. Organic growth just happens. You can do a lot of things to…
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What are you running away from?
One of the first things I did when I started a business was outsource bookkeeping and accounting. While it was a good move, I also think I handed off the reins far too much and for too long. It wasn’t difficult for me to find other priorities to care about—sales, marketing, operations, HR—but at the…
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The magic of the first trip
My first two trips out of North America were to Portugal and China. I hadn’t visited Europe before, and I only visited Hong Kong once, nearly two decades before. Both trips were the result of flight deals. My friends and I traveled together—a group of four, and then a separate group of seven. We shared…
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Overthinking and stopping
I recently came across a phrase that resonated with me, “I’ve realized that the only way I’ll lose is if I stop.” You stop because you talk yourself out of doing things you want to do, you put too much pressure on yourself, you avoid problems, you panic, or you try to control things that…