Because the first step to finding better answers is to ask better questions:

How can I learn to love working on the business model, not just doing deliverables?

What is a constructive way to honor the emotional experiences of disappointment, jealousy, and fear?

What tradeoffs have other people who I admire made in their lives?

How can I remain creative and intrinsically motivated while acknowledging the need for external rewards and outcomes?

What distinguishes between willfulness and stubbornness?