Category: Creativity
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Hype vs. reality
One story is that you and I live in an age of hype, where in order to get the resources we need to make something we need to inflate it full of unrealistic expectations. In this frame, if you don’t hype your work, then people won’t pay attention and someone else—who is hyping their work—will…
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Remove imaginary barriers
One of my favorite prompts from Creative Doing is to remove imaginary barriers. It’s surprising to me how often I keep bumping up against barriers that I set up for myself—or that someone else set up that I unconsciously bought into. This comes up as a form of overthinking or procrastination. A list of imaginary…
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Mature confidence
Confidence is a character trait that you earn and develop in yourself. It’s pretty similar to going to the gym. Youthful confidence is boisterous and grandiose. It’s only a matter of time before it’s tested, and often this confidence is brittle. It’s not real yet. A mature confidence isn’t easily shaken. Bad things can happen—an…
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Consistency and breaks
There’s a best practice that equates consistency with success. For some people—the Type A personalities—the problem with taking this advice is when you inevitably break a schedule—a day, or a week, or a month—then you feel guilty, disappointed, and maybe even like you shouldn’t even have started in the first place. It becomes more difficult…
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Keep your promises to yourself
When you tell yourself that you’re going to do something, you need to get it done. A good promise usually fits into some patterns. Here are three, amongst may others, that work for me (that I’m writing in second person): A friend of mine once wrote, “How you do anything is how you do everything.”…
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Is time on your side?
Is your business position getting stronger by the day? Is your advantage growing? Do you feel more comfortable and relaxed? Are you spending more time doing the things you want to do? Are you getting tangibly closer and closer to your goal? Or are you paranoid about when the current sales contracts end? Are you…
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Avoid sitting with rejection
In 2007, Katy Milkman was in the middle of her doctoral degree at Harvard when she got bad news. Her manuscript, which she’d worked on for two years, was rejected by the journal she had submitted it to. She wasn’t sure what to do next and consulted her academic advisor, Max Bazerman. Bazerman assured her…
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Staying in practice
I’ve written about how confidence emerges from competence, and how it’s helpful to build confidence on a foundation of practice. These two posts come to mind when I watched Ryan Leslie’s recent Tiny Desk concert: Almost a decade after he pivoted away from a conventional recording artist career and into a more business-oriented one (including…
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Find people who need the best idea
The trailer for Thor: Ragnarok closes with Thor bracing himself for his opponent. He finds out that it’s his fellow Avenger, the Hulk. Thor screams in relief and celebration, “We know each other! He’s a friend from work!” That was one of the best lines in the movie, and it wasn’t in the script. It…
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Three good ways to let go of expectations
I was recently speaking about Creative Doing at a workshop, and had suggested that participants would be better off lowering their expectations for what their creative work would do for them. One participant responded by asking, “What are some good ways to let go of expectations?” Three prompts come to mind for practicing letting go…