Category: A Matter of Time
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The destination is a new way of seeing
One’s destination is never a place, but rather a new way of looking at things. Henry Miller
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Volunteering
People don’t like risk. They usually commit to the option that they trust more, or at least feels less risky. It takes time to build this trust. Job interviews, social media updates, phone calls, blog posts, demos—all of these are ways to demonstrate that you are trustworthy. When you ask a person to get paid…
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Just leave the bags at home?
You leave your house to buy groceries before your dinner plans. “But wait,” your brain says, “There’s more than enough time for you to jog over to your favorite coffee shop and write.” You haven’t been in a long time, so you pack your laptop and fill up your water bottle, and you head out…
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Cold-blooded creative work
Patrick Dubroy writes: You see, warm-blooded animals — like humans or mice — have a stable body temperature that stays within a pretty narrow range. For humans, it’s around 37 degrees Celsius. A few degrees higher or lower and we’re in big trouble. Cold-blooded animals like the painted turtle can adapt their metabolism to the…
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“How can I help?”
Or, “What would be most helpful?” If someone’s ever nice enough to ask you this, it’s generally a good idea to have a pointed, specific, answer to this question. It just takes a little bit of preparation before the meeting, or even a more intentional mindset during the meeting, to see how the other person…
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Write it down for someone else
Whenever you can, however you can, stored and published in some digital and searchable format for posterity.
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Parenthood and possibilities
A few days after we came home from the hospital, I sent a letter to a friend, including a photo of my son and some first impressions of fatherhood. He responded, simply, “Everything is possible again.” It was the perfect thing to write, because that was exactly how it felt. We could retell our stories…
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Foundation first
One philosophy or heuristic I have been drawn to recently is to prioritize foundational activities. Personal life: wash your face, work out, eat healthy and regularly, feed your cat, shower, do laundry, present yourself, journal, write, draw, etc. Do things that make you feel alive. This is actually the most important foundation. Professional life: keep…
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When happiness happens
You will never be happy if you continue to search for what happiness consists of. You will never live if you are looking for the meaning of life. Albert Camus HAPPINESS.—A butterfly, which when pursued, seems always just beyond your grasp, but if you sit down quietly may alight upon you. New Orleans Crescent
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Clear the calendar
On any given day, your brain could give you a burst of energy to do something you’ve been putting off; it might feel like a whim. Consider giving this more attention than you’d think. Clear an afternoon off for it if you can, and let the inspiration take you where it wants you to go.