Category: Turning Stories
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Optimism vs. delusion
Making the choice to be optimistic is always worth it, especially when it’s the more difficult decision to make. As Bob Iger, who leads Disney, puts it, optimism is the ability to focus on what matters—steering your team towards the best possible outcome, and moving forward in spite of setbacks. It also means letting go…
Herbert Lui
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Getting rich
One path to getting rich looks more like saving money. While your friends buy the fancier options, you don’t. You’re not broke, you’re living within your means and taking steps toward richness. Maybe you used to borrow from the future, and now you’ve given that inclination up. Whereas most people may feel a horrifying shame…
Herbert Lui
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Two quotes about fans and enthusiasm
“It’s not what you know. It’s who you know,” the cliché goes. (Not one of the quotes.) If you’re doing creative work—visual art, writing, music, entrepreneurship, programming, design, amongst the many other forms of expression—it’s entirely about who you know and who knows you. These people create supportive contexts for you by working as managers,…
Herbert Lui
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Making the money vs. collecting it
Chris Rock asked a young comic what he did that day. “Nothing,” the young comic said. “But I’m going to do a set tonight.” “You make money during the day. You collect it at night,” Chris responded. “During the day is where the money is made.” There’s a writing lesson here: While comics and comedians…
Herbert Lui
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The right answer vs. your answer
Cluely is a new AI app that listens to your conversations and feeds you the best answers. The team behind it created a phrase designed to be misunderstood and polarizing, but saying that it lets you cheat on any conversation. Cheating like a calculator is cheating a math test, of course. If you choose to…
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Why not both?
“Do you want this, or that?” Yes. Sometimes, the best option isn’t to choose one or the other. It’s to choose both. (The formal business school term for this is integrative thinking.) For example, if you’re an author, and you’re asking yourself, “Do you want to self-publish your next book, or work with a publisher?” …
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The wall of cringe
Let’s say you want to be a DJ. You’ve done some DJing for friends, you’ve gotten good at the craft, and you’re ready to go pro. Your goal is to be invited to a mainstream festival stage and get offered tens of thousands of dollars. You start to put some feelers to your family and…
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Cash covers things up
Money makes it easy for people to lie to themselves, and to other people. None of the entrepreneurs who started Theranos, Nikola, Fast, Juicero, and WeWork would have gotten very far with what they were doing if they didn’t raise cash from investors. Cash can cover up all sorts of problems, or at the very…
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Talking myself away from the fear of being seen
Some people who have a lot to offer the internet feel too much doubt to write and publish it. Ashley Willis wrote a great post about this. Even though I publish here every day, I identify with this group of people. I’ve written for over 1,000 days now. Sometimes, for me, it feels like the…
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“Pain is inevitable, suffering is optional”
A couple of months ago, I caught up with a good friend on the phone. An opening came up for me to recommend Derek Sivers’s book, Useful Not True, and so I did. I chatted with my friend again, a couple of days ago, and he told me the book resonated with him. Particularly, he…
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